In relationships, both sides are equally important, valuable.

The experiences, and inner world of both sides are equally important.

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In a relationship with another person, we get to know ourselves in a relationship with others. What are our needs, desires within partnership, within friendships, within work relationships... Everything is a matter of communication, healthy boundaries, clear priorities and interests, consideration of both sides, mutual agreements. Every relationship is unique and different. There is no single universal advice for a good relationship. People are different and what works in our relationship may not necessarily work in someone else’s . This is exactly the magic of relationships, learning, growing and getting to know yourself and others involved within them. A person we really know, we understand how he/she/them work, what are his/hers/their needs, desires, etc. At the same time, it is precisely this joint endless learning, because over time we ourselves and the person on the other side are constantly changing and growing.

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In relationship with another person, we share our world with them and learn about their world. Neither of these two worlds is more acceptable, better, comparable…. The inner world of each individual is the result of experiences gained throughout their life.

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Thus, the basis for good relationships are good communication skills and the quality of curiosity and a better understanding of oneself and the person on the other side. Connecting. Relating. Intimacy. Authenticity. Kindness. Compassion. Closeness. Communication and even those unpleasant conversations about vulnerable, uncomfortable topics, ultimately connect us even more, and within arising, overcoming various obstacles, limitations, in a relationship, we create trust, strength and security.

 

In sessions for couples with Tjaša, you will learn about various techniques and communication skills. As a couple, you will learn to decern what is yours and what belongs to the person on the other side, how far you reach and where the other person starts, what is safe for you, what are your healthy boundaries... to take yourself and the other into account, to get better to know yourself and the person on the other side,  your/their needs and desires, and how to express them; how to better operate in a relationship, be kind to yourself and others even in times of conflict, anger, frustration... how can you support yourself, your partner, friend...

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When we love, when we care regardless of what we are experiencing at the moment, let us remind ourselves that we and the person on the other side are not defined by one event, one experience, that we are all a whole (of many parts, events, experiences ...), much more than just that. Wounds and bad experiences from the past can cloud our vision and we can find ourselves in our own story, perspective, beliefs, emotions..., without considering and really listening to the other side. Being heard, seen, understood and not judged, is exactly what is the key to HEALING and LIBERATION.

 

Show interest in understanding the other side, with groundedness, presence, awareness, forgiveness and allowing that it just is, not taking things personal, knowing that you are not responsible for someone else's emotions and experiences, their perspective.

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Are you ready for the CHANGE? Better knowing and understanding of yourself, your actions/reactions, needs...? Are you ready to do small steps every day so you can create and attract the life you want?

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Take the first step. Book your first appointment and start the journey of discovering and understanding of new depths of yourself and the person on the other side.